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Sascha Altman DuBrul's avatar

So much gratitude! This is such an important piece—thank you for naming these powerful modalities (Bateson, sociometry, Process Work) and for bringing them into the conversation about how we actually do movement-building in a way that strengthens us instead of tearing us apart. Seeing this kind of sketch of a framework laid out is inspiring because I know firsthand how much training it takes to hold space in the way you’re describing—to see our blind spots, to invite divergence without it devolving into destruction, to make space for conflict in a generative way.

Obviously one of our particular challenges on the Left is how much of our political culture has become fixated on individual identity—especially the identity of the underdog. There’s a way that this kind of identity politics can make it so challenging to build durable movements, because when we’re constantly navigating who has the most legitimate claim to suffering, it makes trust and collaboration almost impossible. And yet, I completely agree that without cultivating the wisdom of the divergent voice, we’ll just keep repeating the same patterns of collapse and fragmentation.

I’m really down for this conversation in a long term kind of way. In my day to day life I'm an IFS practitioner and I work with individuals (including myself!) who struggle with all kinds of internal polarizations and exile parts that end up running the show until we can unblend enough to take care of all the intersecting parts. It's a smaller fractal version of the work you're describing. I so appreciate your voice in these times. I'll be out here listening.

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Liz Cooledge Jenkins's avatar

This is really good. I've been in groups where I felt like I often held divergent opinions but didn't want to disrupt things by voicing them, and it would have meant the world to me if the facilitator (or anyone, really) had asked those simple questions - Does anyone have a different idea? Does anyone disagree?

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